It’s too generic, common and, frankly says nothing about you that’s interesting.Instead, be more specific and paint a picture for him.Such as, “A great evening for me is trying out the newest ethnic food restaurant with a few good friends and disagreeing about the controversial exhibit at the art museum.” Or, “Sunday mornings you’ll find me at the SPCA walking dogs and then off to my favorite breakfast joint for their fresh brewed coffee and chile relleno.I like mine extra spicy.” (Okay, doesn’t hurt to flirt a little.) 5) You sound like a Debbie Downer.And once you know how it is inadvertently turning off the men who are looking for a positive, fun connection, it’s really not that difficult.
But on the whole, people appreciate honesty, because surprises just aren’t that romantic in the context of internet dating. Avoid clichés and platitudes If dating websites are to be believed, absolutely everyone on Earth ‘seizes the day’ and is looking for their ‘partner in crime’.
Because, let’s face it, the odds are not in our favor, ladies.
As we get older the man-to-woman ratio moves more and more lopsided.
Once you’ve hit your 40s and beyond, you kind of know what works for you and what doesn’t. If you do a good job describing yourself and painting a picture of what it feels like to be in a relationship with you, it will attract the right men and repel the wrong ones.
Many women use their profile as a list of their likes and dislikes. So focus more on what you have to offer, and less on what they can do for you.After all, you’ve probably accomplished a lot in your life without a man and are prepared to continue doing so.