Cue the sirens, folks, because the first game we’ll discuss is a true contagion in the dating world. Sugar-Coated Lying Early in dating, men and women lie constantly.Some of the lies are little white lies (“I love exercising”) while others are serious lies that no one should ever be repeating (“I’m single,” when you’re really not).And consider borrowing a high-end camera with an interchangeable lens instead of using your phone.Erase these from your online vocabulary: ur, r, u, ya, and cant (without the apostrophe).Oh, if I could only count the number of times I’ve heard clients recount stories about the annoying games men and women play in dating.Grab your cup of coffee or glass of wine, ladies and gentlemen, because we’re about to get into it!
Ok Cupid discovered that messages with those words receive responses 25% of the time or less.
That’s because focusing on the physical makes a woman feel you’re not interested in getting to know the real her, explains Spira. “Mention something else you admired about her profile,” suggests Spira.