You have to be really clear on that and set your boundaries accordingly. That only means you won’t be meeting the men you are incompatible with and that’s not really a loss.
If he respects them, then he gets the green light and you two can continue to get to know him. Yes, you might get some radio silence at first but eventually, someone will emerge from that rubble and will be similar to you with values more aligned to yours.
As the encounter escalates, you may be very surprised at the frisky phrases that pop out of your mouth.
Start stroking yourself, and when your pulse is pounding, give him a call.
I emailed support this morning, had to use the App Store because they don't give you access to them anywhere else. Stay away from this app if you really intend on meeting someone.